Sing with your Child – It will be good for both of you!

Looking for a great way to introduce your child to music? Searching for an easy way to get your child interested in music? I’ve got a great idea for you! Not only is it easy, it’s free! Can’t get much better than that!

The easiest way to introduce your child to music is to sing. That’s it! Just sing! Sing with your child. Sing to your child. You can sing about anything. Sing about what you are doing. Make up songs about picking up the toys. Sing about getting up in the morning. Just sing!

Here are some reasons why you should sing with and to your child.

Singing with your child is fun!

Music makes most anything better, so use some songs to go through your day. Sing when it is time to wake your child in the morning. Sing about her clothes when she is getting dressed. Make up a song about what you are going to do that day. Sing silly songs together. Make a game with your songs. Let your child sing an answer back to you. Just have fun!

Singing with your child is easy!

Just take your sentences and set them to some little tune. Use a melody you already know, or just make one up. You aren’t looking for highly refined music here, just little tunes. Make them up as you go along. Even if you only use a couple different notes, you can still sing a little song about what you are doing or thinking.

Singing with your child takes no great skills!

Singing with your child does not take great skills or practice. Remember, you are doing this for fun. It’s not necessary to have a great voice, or great vocal skills. So, enjoy! We talk to our kids without worrying about being great orators; we should sing with them without concern for our vocal qualities. Just have fun!

Singing with your child is free!

What’s better than free? You don’t have to invest in materials or lessons to sing with your child. No cost involved! Sing songs you remember from your childhood. Sing songs you have heard. Make up your own songs. Find silly kid’s songs at the library, or on your favorite streaming service. Sing them together. Make up your own words to some songs you already know.

Singing with your child will benefit both of you.

  • Bonding
  • Cognitive skills
  • Communication (Language skills)
  • Musical Sense

Your child will learn some basic things about music.

  • Pitch differentiation
  • Music is a form of communication
  • You can have fun with music
  • Music is for anyone, anytime, anywhere, not just for professionals.

Here are some links to other sources showing that singing with your child is beneficial:

So, go forth, sing together, and have fun!

Sing with your Child!

Musical Memories

Did your kids make any musical memories over the holidays?

Music = Memories

I think there are two kinds of musical memories. Sometimes there is a piece of music that just triggers so many memories for me. Or many pieces of music that trigger way too many memories! There are songs I cannot sing without tears coming to my eyes. I remember listening to a former student of mine singing a lovely lullaby. And now, I can barely think of the song without tears running down my face because I still associate the music with a miscarriage from almost 20 years ago. There are other songs that I cannot sing without my mind being flooded with memories from college choir. I cannot read certain portions of Scripture because my mind must sing them instead! I am sure that I am not the only one this happens to!

Performing Music = Memories

The other kind of musical memories I think about are the memories connected to an actual “performance.” For me, Christmas Eve is always connected to music, and to my children performing music. For several years, we did a lot of the music for our church Christmas Eve services. We had string quartets, brass trios, various vocal ensembles, flute duets. Yes, it was a lot of work and stress (for me, at least), and I expect my kids weren’t always that happy about it, but I always felt their musical abilities were a gift we could give to others around us. Some of my favorite pictures of my kids were taken after a Christmas Eve service when they were all dressed up, holding their different instruments. I treasure those pictures.

Listening to Music = Memories

Perhaps I should add a third type of musical memories. Sometimes I hear a piece of music played on the radio and my mind immediately remembers the time one of my kids played that piece. I remember the struggles they had learning it, and how nice it sounded when they performed the piece. And then I will tell my youngest son (much younger than some of his older siblings) how his brother played the piece they were just playing on the radio, or how one of his sisters played a certain piece for her recital. I don’t know if he is ever suitably impressed, but I tell him just the same.

What are your Music Memories?

So, tell me. Did your kids make any musical memories over the holidays? Maybe they won’t remember the event, but you probably will! Or what memories flood your mind when you hear certain music? I’d love to hear your musical memories! Share them in the comments.

Thanksgiving Songs? Who Knew?

Did you know there are specific Thanksgiving songs? We are all familiar with Christmas music, and patriotic music, but Thanksgiving music? Not so much. We are going to look at three Thanksgiving songs this week and learn the back story of each of them.

The Doxology - Praise God from whom all blessings flow.
The Doxology – Praise God from whom all blessings flow.

“The Doxology”

Praise God from whom all blessings flow;
Praise Him, all creatures here below;
Praise Him above, ye heavenly host;
Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost.

Have you ever sung this in church? When I was growing up we sang this every Sunday morning after the offering. But I never really thought about the words very much. But how appropriate these words are for Thanksgiving. A doxology (and there are several) is simply a song giving glory or praise to God.

Thomas Ken, an Anglican clergyman wrote this doxology in 1709. It has been around for a long time! He wrote several hymns for the students at Winchester College to use throughout the day. This Doxology was included at the end of both his Morning Hymn and his Evening Hymn. Thomas Ken had an excellent reputation in both his work at the college and in his service for the English royalty.  Listen Here

Over the River and Through the Woods
Over the River and Through the Woods

“Over the River and Through the Wood”

Over the river, and through the wood,
To Grandfather’s house we go;
The horse knows the way
To carry the sleigh
Through the white and drifted snow.

Over the river, and through the wood,
To Grandfather’s house away!
We would not stop
For doll or top,
For ‘t is Thanksgiving Day.

Over the river, and through the wood,
Oh, how the wind does blow!
It stings the toes,
And bites the nose,
As over the ground we go.

While many may think of this song as a Christmas song, it was actually written for Thanksgiving. Its original title was “The New-England Boy’s Song about Thanksgiving Day.” The original words say, “Hurrah for Thanksgiving Day!” as opposed to “Hurrah for Christmas Day!” This song was originally written as a poem, and it had twelve verses. At some point this poem was set to music but the composer is unknown.

Lydia Maria Child wrote the original poem. It was published in 1844. She was a well-known author during the time leading up to the Civil War. She wrote a magazine for children, popular books for housewives, and even some novels. One of her novels got her into trouble because it featured an interracial couple – a New England woman and a Native American. She also wrote against slavery, and in favor of the African- Americans.  Listen Here

Let All Things Now Living
Let All Things Now Living

“Let All Things Now Living”

Let all things now living a song of thanksgiving
To God the creator triumphantly raise.
Who fashioned and made us, protected and stayed us,
Who still guides us on to the end of our days.
His banners are o’er us, His light goes before us,
A pillar of fire shining forth in the night.
Till shadows have vanished and darkness is banished
As forward we travel from light into light.

His law he enforces, the stars in their courses
And sun in its orbit obediently shine;
The hills and the mountains, the rivers and fountains,
The deeps of the ocean proclaim him divine.
We too should be voicing our love and rejoicing;
With glad adoration a song let us raise
Till all things now living unite in thanksgiving:
“To God in the highest, Hosanna and praise!”

This song may not be as familiar to you as the others, but it is a great song of praise. And that, really, is what Thanksgiving is all about – praise and thanks. The melody used for this hymn of thanksgiving is an old Welsh folk melody, “Ash Grove.” This melody dates to the 1700’s.

Katherine K. Davis wrote the words for “Let All Things Now Living,” possibly as early as the 1920’s. Katherine Davis was from Missouri and was a very accomplished musician. She studied composition, piano, and music theory, taught at both the high school and college levels. She wrote more than 800 vocal and instrumental compositions, even some operas! Ms. Davis lived until 1980.  Listen Here

While you may not know this song, I am pretty sure you know something else that she wrote. Katherine Davis was also the composer of “The Drummer Boy.”

I have three more Thanksgiving songs for you next week. One will certainly surprise you!

Thanksgiving Music - Yes!
Thanksgiving Music – Yes!